• Thanks for saving my sister

    Posted: November 16th, 2011

    I would like to congratulate Coach K on his becoming the Division I most winningest coach. Way to go.

    However, he is the most winningest coach in my families eyes for another reason. My sister was discovered to have a rather rare brain tumor in Oct. Her son-in-law, Jimmy Dykes, was at Duke and mentioned in front of Coach K that this was found and the prognosis was not good and we were told removal was not an option. I don’t know the whole story, but Coach K took it upon himself to contact “his buddy” Neurosurgeon Alan Friedman. He took a look at my sister’s case and was sure he could give us a better outcome. Things rolled pretty quickly after that. My sister, Robbie Prine, was contacted by neuro-oncologist Dr. Henry Friedman and it was set up for her to come to Duke. They were sure they could remove it. Long story short, these two brilliant men took excellent care of my sister and the tumor was resected “brilliantly” in the words of Dr. Henry Friedman, no chemo or radiation needed, and she is on the road to healing. She is traveling home today as I type this.

    So, I’m thrilled he is so successful in his chosen career at Duke, but I am honored and humbled that a man of his stature would take the time to not just hear a story and forget about it, but to jump in and act – and in the opinion of everyone in my family – save her life by getting the ball rolling in the right direction.

    This is not to belittle the work of the surgeons/staff/and everyone else involved in her care, but without Coach K making that initial important contact, none of this would have played out.

    We will forever be indebted to him even though he doesn’t know who we are – we know him. He is dear to us all. Our Christmas list has grown significantly after this ordeal and Coach K is tops on the list with Drs. Alan and Henry Friedman right along side.

    Again, Thank you, Thank you Coach K and may God bless you and all you hold dear.
    You have given us the best Thanksgiving gift one can receive – our sister – healthy and tumor-free.

    Forever in your debt,

    Rachel Babb

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